Planning ahead
People with MND are encouraged to talk through options for their care and preferences for end of life, before the need is urgent or before you find it too difficult or tiring to communicate. Having time to think things through and knowing that your wishes and decisions have been recorded gives many people peace of mind.
Hospice
The aim of hospice is to help people make the most of their lives, in whatever way is important to them. Anyone living with a life-limiting condition can access and benefit from hospice services.
Hospice NZ care has a unique 'whole person' approach, which means physical, spiritual, emotional and social needs are equally important. A multidisciplinary team provides care for the person who is dying and their families and friends, both before and after a death. While most hospice services in New Zealand do have inpatient facilities, the majority of people are cared for in their homes.
Find your local hospice service here.
Skylight grief support
Skylight is a national not-for-profit trust that helps children and young people through times of trauma, loss and grief. Skylight can send support information tailored to specific situations, posted out to anyone, anywhere in New Zealand. (A donation is requested to help cover the cost of this service.) Support resources and publications are also available for loan including books, DVDs and games.
Advance care planning
Advance care planning is about thinking ahead and deciding on your future healthcare and end-of-life care. It helps you express what matters most to you and guides your family and healthcare team in case you're unable to speak for yourself. This ensures your wishes about treatment are known and respected.
Why it's important:
Advance care planning ensures your loved ones and healthcare providers understand your preferences if you're seriously ill or injured and can't make decisions. Like writing a Will or appointing an Enduring Power of Attorney (EPA), it’s a key part of planning for the future. It allows you to clarify what care you do or don’t want, and ensures that your personal values, relationships, and spiritual needs are considered.
The process includes:
- Discussing your medical care preferences with family and healthcare professionals.
- Thinking about what "living well" means to you and which treatments you would accept or refuse.
- Appointing an EPA to make medical decisions on your behalf if you’re unable.
- Writing down your wishes in a document like an Advance Directive.
This is a flexible process that can be revisited and updated as your health or circumstances change.
There are three New Zealand websites that can help people in New Zealand plan for the end of their life:
- Advance Care Planning: www.advancecareplanning.org.nz (contains resources in Maori and Korean)
- Te Hokinga ā Wairua End of Life Service: www.endoflife.services.govt.nz
Writing an advance directive
An advance directive is a way to choose specific treatments you would or wouldn't want if you can't speak for yourself. If you're unable to communicate, your healthcare team will use your advance care plan and directive. They'll need to be sure that:
- You fully understood what you were asking for
- You weren't pressured by someone else
- You intended it to apply to your current situation
For more information, visit the New Zealand Medical Association website.
Writing an Advance Directive:
As part of advance care planning, you may decide to create an advance directive. This records your choices about treatments you want or don't want in case of a medical emergency, serious illness, or injury. While it can be spoken, it’s best to put it in writing. It’s also a good idea to discuss your preferences with your doctor. You can request that your Attorney for personal care and welfare refers to your directive when making decisions.
Your Advance Directive is more likely to be followed if:
- You were competent when making it
- You intended it for the current situation
- You were well-informed
- It was made freely, without pressure
- It is up to date
Your directive will only be used if you've lost mental capacity, are unconscious, or can't communicate. Doctors will consider your directive in deciding what’s in your best interest, but they aren’t legally required to follow it if it doesn’t align with good medical practice. For example, they wouldn't be obligated to follow requests for assisted dying or treatments outside of medical guidelines.
Storing Your Advance Directive:
Keep your advance directive somewhere accessible, like in your wallet, and give copies to your Attorney for care and welfare, your doctor, healthcare facility, and close family or friends. Update them with new copies if you change your directive.
Changing Your Advance Directive:
You can update or rewrite your directive anytime, as long as you're able. Review it yearly to ensure it's still relevant, especially if your health or circumstances change. Sign and date the updated version, and share new copies with your Attorney, doctor, healthcare facility, and others.
Preparing a will
Appointing an enduring power of attorney (property)
Appointing an enduring power of attorney (care and welfare)
What is legal capacity?
The Protection of Personal and Property Rights Act 1988 governs decision-making for adults in New Zealand. This law assumes that all adults have the capacity to make decisions, meaning they understand their choices, the consequences, and can communicate them. Capacity can be temporarily affected by illness or medication, or permanently affected by conditions like intellectual disability, dementia, mental illness, or brain injury. However, having memory problems or a disability doesn't automatically mean someone can't make decisions.
If you’re concerned about someone’s capacity, ask their doctor to assess them or refer them to a specialist. To make future plans, like creating an advance care plan, you must have capacity.
If someone loses the ability to make decisions about their welfare or finances, the Family Court may need to appoint an Attorney to act on their behalf.
Last updated
15 October 2024